"Self-Help for Self-Love"

"Self-Help for Self-Love"

Believe in Yourself. Expect the Best and Get It!

Give yourself permission to go after what you want in love and life. You can succeed if you will remove the obstacles that are currently in your way. Let me know what those obstacles are. Let me know what you need most in order to succeed. You deserve to love yourself, and you have been born to have success in love and life.

You deserve to believe in yourself, to expect the best and to succeed. I am here to help you. I am listening. I want you to fall madly in love with yourself, and I am an expert at teaching people how to accomplish this goal. I was a Marriage and Family Therapist in California for over 10 years, and I am a Trauma Expert and Relationship Coach now in New York.

Join my mailing list for free and receive the 1st chapter of my ebook, "How to Fall Madly in Love with Yourself" and my eNewsletter, "Love Yourself Now."

Then, please let me know what your obstacles are to loving yourself so I can help you remove them, one obstacle at a time.

May all your dreams come true.

With love and blessings,

Sandra Dawson, MA

Love and Relationship Coach

America's Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert

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$600 per hour shrinks? You can do better.....

I recently read an article in the New York Times about $600/hour psychoanalysts serving the rich. I think this is a big waste of time for a highly successful rich person to do. If you have a personality disorder, then by all means, hire a freudian analyst, but for the vast majority of highly successful clients, there is no need to seek this kind of help, no matter how credible an analyst's expertise may sound.

If you are feeling dissatified with your life in any way or anxious about pressures in your life, you are displaying symptoms that directly indicate a lack of self-love. When you love yourself, you take care of all of your human needs, and as a result of doing that, you feel empowered, happy and fulfilled.

Love and happiness are not the result of a great balance sheet. Money helps to support the needs of the real self, if you know how to love yourself 100%. I am a successful Love Coach and I can show you how to fall madly in love with yourself. By doing this, you will truly create a totally fufilling and happy life for yourself. Seeing a freudian analyst might boost your ego, but it will do nothing to solve your real problems in life, because it is most probably a mismatched relationship.

I was a Marriage and Family Therapist in California for 15 years, and now I am a Love and Relationship Coach in Westhampton Beach, New York. I have been helping individuals, couples and groups to love and accept their true selves for more than 25 years. I am the founder of the Institute for Self-Love, and I am passionate about helping you remove any and all obstacles to loving and valuing yourself 100%. I am trained to work with communication and relationship issues, anxiety, depression and trauma, which are all possible obstacles to your emotional well-being. I am also trained in an energy trauma method that is truly remarkable in its effectiveness for transforming a highly activated nervous system to a nervous system that is calmly alert.

If you have anxiety that stops you from doing what you truly want to do, please contact me asap.

You can contact me at 310 291 2201 or 631 228 4361.

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With love and blessings,

Sandra Dawson, MA
America's Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert

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What is a true connection?

One of the biggest problems in relationships is the lack of a true connection.

What is a true connection?

It is a desire to be with someone because you want to share yourself with them and you want them to share themselves with you. The experience of sharing is so gratifying that you look forward to being with each other. Disconnected behavior in love relationships can sometimes look like the following: affairs, addictions to porn, drugs, alcohol or work, emotionally too close to an opposite sex friend, or too involved with a hobby or some activity.

The underlying problem with disconnected behavior is a lack of connection with oneself. Couples who are disconnected find each other. If your partner is disconnected, then you can be sure you are too. This means that you lacked the kind of support and nurturing from your parents that would have allowed you to become an adult who trusts closeness.

The solution is healing your broken heart. When children don’t get the support and nurturing they truly need to stay in touch with their need for connection, their hearts are truly broken. I am willing to bet your heart has been broken too.

Please don’t let another day go by without working on healing your broken heart. By doing this, you can learn to reach out and connect with your partner, instead of demanding that he or she do something you can’t even do yourself.

I can help you. I would recommend that you learn how to fall madly in love with yourself. Your heart was broken because your parents didn’t meet your needs. Your needs fall into five general categories: physical needs, safety and security needs, belonging and acceptance needs, self-esteem needs and self-actualization needs. Healing your broken heart is something you can do as an adult, and it is something that will change every aspect of your life for the better.


With Love and Blessings,

Sandra Dawson, MA
America’s Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert
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How Human Beings Hold Themselves Back

I am continually reminded of the harsh imprint our families and society inflict upon us as children. Those daily discounts and put downs, abuse or neglect, are neatly stored in your unconscious brain, and because they are unconscious, they are rarely paid any attention, unless you are acting out their meanings.

If you are unhappy about anything that seems to be a pattern in your life, you can be absolutely sure that you are stuck in a past belief system that you learned as a child. Leaving those messages alone, and doing nothing about them, is how human beings hold themselves back from one generation to the next.

If your parents loved themselves and each other, because they were taught how to be loving by their own parents, then you are probably not reading my eNewsletter. Whoever you are, you are enjoying a fulfilling career and loving relationships, and continually growing to become all you can be. You don't even understand why others are complaining or having a hard time themselves.

All human beings are born with the potential to learn to meet their needs, but they are not necessarily taught how to do it to create positive outcomes. Since we learned negative ways of living, we can unlearn them. It’s not easy work, but it is very possible and extremely rewarding to go from self-doubt to self-love.

For a detailed step-by-step plan to learn how to love yourself, you can get the 3rd edition of “How to Fall Madly in Love with Yourself” right now by clicking here:

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Believe in yourself, expect the best and get it, starting now. You want more and you deserve more. You always have and you always will. Give yourself the gift of 100% self-love now.

With love and blessings,

Sandra Dawson, MA
Love and Relationship Coach
America’s Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert
INSTITUTE FOR SELF-LOVE
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